Why I’m Convinced My Houseplant is Secretly Judging Me

Why I’m Convinced My Houseplant is Secretly Judging Me

We’ve all been there. You’re sprawled on the couch in your oldest sweatpants, haven’t showered in a questionable amount of time, and you’re pretty sure your last meal was a bag of stale chips. You glance up and… BAM. There it is. That look.

The Side-Eye From My Houseplant

It all started innocently enough. I, like many during the pandemic, decided to become a Plant Parent™. I envisioned a lush, green oasis filled with thriving flora. What I got was… Fernando.

Fernando, a peace lily I’d optimistically named after my dream vacation destination, was supposed to be low-maintenance. But something about his perpetually wilted leaves and the way he seemed to… sigh whenever I walked by filled me with a creeping sense of unease.

The Great Watering Incident of 2023

Things escalated quickly. One particularly frazzled morning, I completely forgot to water Fernando. I was already running late for work, hair resembling a bird’s nest, desperately trying to find matching socks. As I flew past Fernando, I swore I heard a dramatic gasp followed by what I can only describe as a “tsk” sound.

Okay, maybe I was imagining things. Stress does weird things to a person, right?

Except, later that day, I spilled coffee all over my keyboard during an important Zoom meeting. And when I hung up, red-faced and mortified, guess who was turned away from me, leaves pointed dramatically towards the window?

Coincidence? I think not.

The Curious Case of the Missing Plant Food

Look, I know I’m not the best Plant Parent™. I forget to rotate him towards the sunlight. I occasionally overwater. And I may or may not have used his pot to hide the evidence of a particularly disastrous attempt at baking a cake (don’t judge, it was a dark time).

But the final straw came when I realized I was out of plant food. Again. I swear I just bought some! This time, Fernando didn’t even try to hide his disappointment. He just sat there, leaves drooping lower than usual, practically radiating judgmental energy.