Why I’m Convinced My Houseplant is Secretly Judging Me

Why I’m Convinced My Houseplant is Secretly Judging Me

The Side-Eye from a Fiddle Leaf Fig

We’ve all been there. You walk into the room, feeling pretty good about yourself, maybe even whistling a little tune, and then you see it. The judgmental stare of someone (or something) who clearly thinks you messed up. Except in my case, it wasn’t my significant other dishing out the disapproval – it was Ferdinand, my fiddle leaf fig.

Ferdinand can’t roll his eyes (or, you know, actually see), but the way his leaves droop dramatically whenever I walk by? That’s pure, unadulterated judgment disguised as photosynthesis. Trust me, I can feel it.

Exhibit A: The Case of the Forgotten Watering

I’ll admit, I’m not the most attentive plant parent. Okay, sometimes I forget to water Ferdinand for, like, a week. Or two. But in my defense, life gets busy! Between work, social obligations (Netflix counts as socializing, right?), and trying to maintain a semblance of adulthood, remembering to water a plant can slip my mind.

But Ferdinand? He never forgets. Oh no, he makes sure I know exactly how he feels about my neglect. Cue the dramatic wilting, the leaf droop that seems to worsen by the hour, and maybe even a few strategically placed brown spots for good measure.

And the worst part? As soon as I give him a good soak, he perks right back up, leaves gleaming with smug satisfaction. It’s like he’s saying, “See? This is what happens when you pay attention to me, peasant.”

Exhibit B: The Great Repotting Debacle of 2023

Then there was the Great Repotting Debacle of 2023. Ferdinand had clearly outgrown his pot, his roots practically bursting at the seams. I knew it was time to upgrade his living situation, but let’s just say my thumbs aren’t exactly green.