The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant




The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant


Let’s be honest, I’m about as far from a “plant person” as you can get. In fact, I’ve been known to kill a cactus (RIP, Spike). So, when my well-meaning friend gifted me a peace lily for my birthday, I accepted it with a grimace disguised as gratitude. Little did I know, this leafy roommate would teach me more than just how to not kill something green.

“Help Me Help You”: A Crash Course in Plant Communication

My first mistake? Assuming all my plant needed was the occasional splash of water. I treated it like a goldfish, vaguely remembering its existence once a week. Predictably, my lily started to droop, its once vibrant leaves resembling sad, green tacos. It was then I realized, this wasn’t a one-sided relationship. My plant was trying to communicate its needs, and I was failing miserably at listening.

Through some frantic Googling (thank you, plant forums!), I discovered the subtle language of my peace lily. The drooping? Thirsty. The yellowing leaves? Too much sun. Suddenly, I was paying attention. I learned to read its subtle cues, adjusting its water and sunlight accordingly. It was a crash course in communication, teaching me the importance of paying attention to the unspoken needs of others, be it a plant or a person.