The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned from a Houseplant



Green Roommate

Let’s be honest, I’m not exactly known for my nurturing abilities. I’m the queen of accidentally killing succulents and forgetting to water anything that doesn’t send me desperate, wilting pleas. So, when my well-meaning friend gifted me a perfectly healthy peace lily, I knew it was in for the ride of its life (or, you know, its time in my living room).

I named him Percy, because every good houseplant needs a name, and prepped myself for the inevitable plant-parent fail. But something funny happened. Percy and I, we started to understand each other.

Percy, bless his little green heart, turned out to be dramatic. One day he’d be reaching for the sun, leaves gloriously green. The next? He’d be slumped over like he’d just lost his best friend, a dramatic drooping that screamed, “I’m dying! You’re killing me!”

At first, I panicked. I’d drown him in apologies (and maybe a little too much water). But then I learned to read the signs. Turns out, Percy thrives on neglect. A little too dry? He perks right up after a good drink. Too much attention? Cue the dramatic swoon. Who knew a plant could be so high-maintenance?

It made me realize that sometimes, we humans can be the same way. We crave attention, we overthink, we react dramatically to situations that require a calmer approach. Percy, in his silent, leafy way, reminded me that sometimes the best approach is a little less fuss and a little more trust in our own resilience.

Lesson 2: Houseplant Resilience and New Growth

Then came the Great Cat Incident of 2023. Let’s just say my cat, Luna, has a penchant for treating all things green like her personal salad bar. One day, I came home to find poor Percy looking more like a chewed-up piece of parsley than a thriving houseplant.

I was devastated. This time, I was sure I’d actually managed to kill him. But, ever the optimist (or maybe just stubborn), I trimmed away the damaged leaves, gave him a pep talk (don’t judge), and hoped for the best.

And guess what? A few weeks later, new growth started to appear. Tiny, bright green shoots pushing through the soil, reaching for the light. Percy, my little champion, refused to give up.