Why I’m Convinced My Houseplant Is Secretly Judging Me




The Day My Fiddle-Leaf Fig Sided With My Cat

It all started innocently enough. I was a new plant parent, excited to welcome a majestic fiddle-leaf fig – let’s call him Ferdinand – into my humble abode. Little did I know, Ferdinand would turn out to be the judgiest roommate I’ve ever had (and I once lived with a girl who alphabetized her spice rack).

One evening, chaos erupted as my cat, Luna, decided the new, leafy addition to our home was, in fact, a jungle gym. Ferdinand swayed precariously as Luna batted at his leaves. I rushed in to intervene, scooping up the feline offender and issuing a stern talking-to. And that’s when I saw it: a single, perfect fiddle-leaf slowly detaching itself from the top of Ferdinand’s stem, spiraling dramatically to the floor.

Ferdinand sigh dramatically? Did he just take Luna’s side in this domestic dispute? From that moment on, I knew things would never be the same between us.

The Case of the Disapproving Droop: Are My Plant’s Needs More Important Than Mine?

As the weeks went by, I became increasingly convinced that Ferdinand was developing an intricate system of passive-aggressive communication – all centered around his leaves.

For example, I swear he droops just a little lower whenever I order takeout for the third night in a row. (Hey, cooking is time-consuming, and sometimes a girl just needs her pad thai, okay?)

And don’t even get me started on the watering situation. I’m convinced Ferdinand waits until I’m about to head out the door for a first date, important meeting, or, you know, anything remotely time-sensitive, to suddenly develop the thirstiest, most dramatic wilt known to humankind.

“Oh, you’re leaving NOW?” he seems to hiss, leaves drooping lower than my self-esteem after a bad haircut. “But what about MY needs?!”