Why I’m Convinced My Houseplant is Secretly Judging Me





Do Houseplants Judge Us? My Fiddle Leaf Fig Seems to Think So

The Day My Fiddle Leaf Fig Rolled Its Eyes (I Think)

Let’s be honest, we’ve all been there. You’re going about your day, maybe in your pajamas, maybe singing off-key to Britney Spears, when you catch a glimpse of your houseplant. And in that moment, you just know. It’s judging you.

Okay, maybe not literally “judging.” But there’s something about the silent observation of a houseplant, particularly my notoriously finicky fiddle-leaf fig, Fiona, that makes me feel intensely seen. And not in a good way.

Fiddle Leaf Fig’s Revenge

Fiona, my fiddle-leaf fig, is a drama queen. I inherited her from a friend who claimed she was “low-maintenance.” Lies. Fiona requires a precise balance of sunlight, humidity, and water, a balance I’ve yet to achieve.

Take, for example, the Great Overwatering Incident of 2023. Armed with good intentions (and maybe a slightly heavy hand), I’d watered Fiona with what I thought was a reasonable amount. A few days later, her leaves started to droop. Not just a little droop, mind you, but a full-on theatrical, Shakespearean swoon.

“Fiona, darling,” I pleaded, “What’s wrong? Too much sun? Not enough sun? Are you being haunted by the ghost of houseplants past?”

Fiona remained silent, her drooping leaves a testament to my plant-parenting failures.

My Monstera Deliciosa is Leaning: Is it My Fault or His?

Fiona isn’t the only plant in my home casting judgmental vibes. There’s also Kevin, my monstera deliciosa, who seems to have developed a rather unfortunate lean.

Now, I’m no botanist, but I’m pretty sure monsteras are supposed to grow upright, not at a 45-degree angle like they’re auditioning for a role in a Tim Burton film. Every time I walk past Kevin, I swear I see him side-eyeing me, his aerial roots reaching out like accusatory fingers.

“It’s not my fault you’re leaning!” I’d argue, as if Kevin could understand me. “I’m rotating you! I even bought you that fancy moss pole! What more do you want from me?”