Penmanship: My (Not-So-Secret) Weapon for Connection
Remember that time you accidentally liked your ex’s Instagram post from three years ago? Yeah, me too. In a world of digital faux pas and fleeting messages, I have a secret weapon: handwritten letters.
It all started in college. My then-long-distance boyfriend, now husband, was less than thrilled with my constant texting. “Why don’t you write me a letter?” he’d say, probably dreaming of a simpler time before autocorrect and accidental voice notes. So, I did.
And guess what? He loved it. Not just the content (though, I am hilarious), but the effort, the tangible connection. It wasn’t lost on him that I’d chosen to spend time, with pen and paper, just for him.
The anticipation, the peeling back of the envelope, the way your loved one’s personality shines through their handwriting – it’s an experience that simply can’t be replicated by a text message. Plus, let’s be real, who doesn’t love getting actual mail that isn’t a bill or a coupon for 10% off your next car wash?
Why Handwritten Letters Are More Than Just Words on a Page
Handwritten letters are more than just a way to communicate, they’re a way to connect. They’re a tangible expression of your thoughts and feelings, something to be treasured long after the email has been deleted and the text message buried under a mountain of emojis.
Here are a few reasons why you should consider picking up a pen:
- Mindfulness: In a world of distractions, writing a letter forces you to slow down, to be present in the moment.
- Creativity: Let your personality shine through your words, your doodles, even your choice of stationery!
- Connection: In an increasingly digital world, handwritten letters offer a rare and precious form of human connection.