It was then I realized that even “low-maintenance” requires some level of maintenance. Just like relationships, hobbies, or even our own well-being, neglecting something, even unintentionally, leads to negative consequences. I was reminded that even small acts of care, done consistently, can make a world of difference.

Lesson #2: Asking for Help is Okay

Determined to salvage my poor, neglected pothos, I did what any self-respecting millennial would do: I Googled it. Turns out, overwatering is just as bad as underwatering (who knew?!). Armed with this newfound knowledge and a healthy dose of guilt, I confessed my plant-parenting failures to my friend.

To my surprise, she didn’t laugh (much). Instead, she patiently explained the intricacies of plant care: the importance of drainage, the signs of overwatering, and the magic of fertilizer. I learned that it’s okay to ask for help, even for something as seemingly trivial as a houseplant. We don’t have to have all the answers, and sometimes, seeking advice from someone with more experience can be the key to success.