The Unspoken Rules of Being a Plant Parent






My Descent into Plant Parenthood (and Mild Panic)

It all started innocently enough. A cute little succulent here, a vibrant monstera cutting there… Next thing I knew, my apartment looked like an Amazonian greenhouse, and I was muttering things like, “Don’t worry, little buddy, I’ll find you the perfect sunny spot.” Yep, I had become a certified plant parent, complete with all the joys, anxieties, and unspoken rules that come with the territory.

plant baby, full of hope and promise. You water it, sing to it (don’t judge!), and even consider starting a dedicated Instagram account for its leafy beauty. Then, tragedy strikes. A drooping leaf here, a suspicious brown spot there… and before you know it, your once-thriving plant is looking a little worse for wear.

This is where the first unspoken rule of plant parenthood kicks in: We do not speak of the fallen. Okay, maybe we share a hushed whisper with our closest plant-loving confidant, but publicly? Never. It’s like a badge of shame, a secret society initiation ritual where only those who have loved and lost (a peace lily, a string of pearls, a *sob* fiddle leaf fig) truly understand.

Rule #2: Google: Plant Parent’s Best Friend and Worst Enemy

Oh, the internet. A vast repository of knowledge, cat videos, and… conflicting plant care advice. One minute you’re confidently diagnosing your spider plant with a nitrogen deficiency, the next you’re spiraling down a rabbit hole of obscure fungal infections and questioning your entire existence as a plant parent.

Here’s the thing: Google is a powerful tool, but it’s important to use it wisely. Stick to reputable sources (like university extensions or well-established plant blogs), and remember that every plant is different. What works for one overzealous plant parent on YouTube might spell disaster for your own leafy companion.