The Unspoken Rules of Elevator Etiquette (and the People Who Break Them)




The Unspoken Rules of Elevator Etiquette (And How Not to Break Them)


My Personal Elevator Everest

The other day, I crammed myself into an already packed elevator, desperately trying to avoid eye contact with the six other humans inhabiting this metal box. It was then I realized: elevator etiquette is a minefield.

We’ve all been there, awkwardly shuffling in the confined space of an elevator, praying we don’t accidentally breathe on anyone. It’s a microcosm of society, where unspoken rules reign supreme and breaking them can result in silent judgment (or worse, awkward small talk).

elevator doors just as they begin to close. With a burst of adrenaline, you manage to wedge your arm through the closing gap, only to be met with the death glare of the Button Pusher. This individual, usually found guarding the control panel like a hawk protecting its young, seems to take personal offense to anyone daring to request a floor after they’ve meticulously selected theirs.

One time, I witnessed a brave soul politely ask a Button Pusher if they could also press the button for the next floor. The response? A curt nod and a muttered, “It’s right next to the one I already pressed.” The tension was so thick you could have cut it with a plastic butter knife.

The Close Talker: Master of Personal Space Invasion

Elevators are small. We get it. But that doesn’t give anyone the right to turn into a Close Talker. You know the type: they stand so close you can practically feel their breakfast breath on your cheek.

I once shared an elevator ride with a particularly enthusiastic Close Talker who decided to recount their entire morning commute in excruciating detail. By the time we reached the lobby, I knew the color of their barista’s socks and the unfortunate state of the traffic on the freeway. All I could do was smile politely and pray for a swift escape.