The Unexpected Joys of Being a ‘Yes’ Person (For a Day)




The Unexpected Joys of Being a ‘Yes’ Person (For a Day)


Let’s be honest, most of us live by carefully curated schedules and well-guarded comfort zones. I’m no exception. I like my routine, my predictable evenings, and knowing what to expect. But recently, I stumbled upon a wacky idea: What if, for just 24 hours, I said “yes” to absolutely everything?

My “Aha!” Moment: Embracing Spontaneity

It all started with a spilled coffee.

Photo of a coffee-stained shirt | Photo by Demi DeHerrera on Unsplash

Yeah, not exactly the most glamorous beginning. I was rushing to work, already running late, when a friendly but clumsy stranger bumped into me. As the brown liquid seeped into my white shirt, my usual self wanted to scream. But then, it hit me: This was the universe challenging me to step outside my comfort zone. So, instead of a meltdown, I took a deep breath and said, “It’s okay! Don’t worry about it.”

His surprised smile was the first clue that maybe, just maybe, saying “yes” to the unexpected could be…interesting.

Adventures in Spontaneity: Karaoke and Dog Park Chaos

My “yes” day officially began with accepting an impromptu karaoke invitation from my colleagues at lunch. Me? Karaoke? I sounded like a dying walrus in the shower! But, true to my challenge, I agreed. And you know what? It was hilarious! We laughed, we sang terribly off-key, and I even discovered a hidden talent for air guitar. Who knew?

Later that day, while walking home, a woman struggled to wrangle her three overly enthusiastic golden retrievers. “Need a hand?” I offered, surprising myself. The next hour was a blur of tangled leashes, slobbery kisses, and a newfound appreciation for dog walkers.

Photo of a person covered in dog hair, smiling | Photo by Joe Caione on Unsplash

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Embracing the Unplanned: Juggling, TikTok, and Life Lessons

Saying “yes” led me down a rabbit hole of unexpected encounters. I ended up:

  • Helping a street performer juggle – with surprising success!
  • Trying (and failing miserably) to learn a TikTok dance routine with a group of teenagers.
  • Having a deep conversation with an elderly gentleman at the bus stop about the meaning of life.

Each “yes” was like opening a door to a hidden room in my own city and my own personality. I met incredible people, faced silly fears, and realized that saying “no” out of habit had kept me from so much joy and spontaneity.

Saying “Yes” to Life’s Curveballs: Your Turn!

My 24-hour experiment was a powerful reminder that sometimes the most rewarding experiences lie outside our comfort zones. It’s not about saying “yes” to everything forever, but about being open to the unexpected and embracing the delightful chaos life throws our way. Have you ever had a “yes” day? What unexpected adventures have you stumbled upon by simply being open to new possibilities?