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  • The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant

    The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant




    The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant


    My Thumb Went From Black to…Less Black?

    Let’s be honest, I’m not exactly known for my nurturing abilities. I once killed a cactus. A CACTUS. So, when my well-meaning friend gifted me a peace lily for my birthday, I accepted it with the same enthusiasm one might have for a tax audit. I figured it was only a matter of time before I added “plant murderer” to my list of questionable talents.

    plant’s persistent perkiness, or maybe I was just tired of watching succulents spontaneously combust in my care, but I decided to actually try this whole “keeping something alive” thing.

    Lesson #1: Resilience Is About More Than Just Bouncing Back

    Turns out, peace lilies are pretty dramatic. Forget to water them for a few days? They wilt like a heartbroken teenager. Give them a little H2O? BAM! Back to life, good as new. This cycle repeated itself several times (okay, maybe more than several) before it finally sunk in: even after a major droop, a little TLC goes a long way.

    Who knew this applied to more than just thirsty flora? We all have those “wilting” moments, those times when we feel like we’re running on empty. But just like my little green roommate, we’re capable of bouncing back. Sometimes, all it takes is recognizing what we need (a good night’s sleep, a vent session with a friend, a whole pizza eaten in one sitting…no judgment here) and giving ourselves permission to recharge.

    Lesson #2: Embracing Imperfect Growth in Ourselves and Our Plants

    Remember how I said I’m not exactly a natural in the plant-parent department? Yeah, well, that learning curve was steep. There was accidental overwatering (RIP, bottom leaves), a near-death experience involving a heat vent, and let’s not even talk about the Great Repotting Fiasco of 2023.

    But through it all, my little plant persevered. It sprouted new leaves (some a little wonky, but hey, nobody’s perfect), and even—dare I say it—thrived. It was a messy, chaotic journey, but with each new leaf, I learned to embrace the process, imperfections and all.

  • The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned from a Houseplant

    The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned from a Houseplant



    My Brown Thumb Turns Green: Embracing the Challenge of Plant Parenthood

    Let’s be honest, I’m not exactly known for my nurturing skills. In fact, my thumbs are decidedly less green and more…well, brown. So, when my well-intentioned friend gifted me a houseplant, I accepted it with a mix of delight and dread. Delight at the thought of bringing some life into my apartment, and dread at the inevitable plant massacre I was sure to commit. Little did I know, this leafy green roommate would teach me more than just how to keep something alive (though that was a definite perk).

    Life Throws Your Way

    The first few weeks were a crash course in plant parenthood. I overwatered, underwatered, and even managed to scorch a few leaves with too much direct sunlight. My poor plant looked like it had seen better days, resembling a sad, wilted salad more than a thriving piece of nature. Just when I was about to throw in the (gardening) towel, something amazing happened. It started to bounce back. New growth emerged, the leaves perked up, and it was like my plant was giving me a leafy green thumbs-up (or at least, that’s how I interpreted it).

    This experience taught me a valuable lesson about resilience. We all go through rough patches, times when we feel wilted and defeated. But just like my resilient houseplant, we have the inner strength to bounce back, stronger and more vibrant than before. It might take some time, a little TLC, and maybe even a pep talk or two (don’t judge, we’ve all been there), but we can overcome challenges and thrive.

    Lesson #2: Growth: Embracing the Unexpected Pace of Progress

    As my confidence as a plant parent grew (pun intended), I became a little obsessed with tracking my plant’s progress. I’d measure its height weekly, scrutinize new leaves, and even whisper words of encouragement (okay, maybe I’m judging myself a little here). I wanted to see tangible evidence of growth, proof that I was doing something right.

    But growth, as I learned, doesn’t always work that way. There were weeks when my plant seemed stagnant, stuck in a leafy limbo. Then, seemingly overnight, it would shoot up, surprising me with its sudden growth spurt. It was a constant reminder that growth isn’t always linear or predictable. It happens in fits and starts, with periods of quiet reflection followed by bursts of progress.