Tag: self awareness

  • The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant

    The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant




    The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant


    My “Occasionally Remembers to Water It” Thumb: A Green Thumb Confession

    Let’s be honest, my history with houseplants is…checkered, at best. I’m the queen of impulse buys at the farmers market, seduced by lush ferns and vibrant succulents. I envision a thriving indoor jungle, only to be left with drooping leaves and a pang of guilt a few weeks later.

    Ferdinand.

    Ferdinand is (or was – it’s a bit of a sensitive subject) a ZZ plant, known for being nearly indestructible. Seriously, these things thrive on neglect. Perfect for someone like me, right? Well, I still managed to make a mess of things. After a few months of underwatering (okay, maybe more than a few), Ferdinand started to look a little…sad. And that’s when the life lessons began.

    Lesson #1: The Importance of Recognizing Subtle Cries for Help

    Ferdinand didn’t throw a dramatic wilting fit like my previous victims. No, he was much more subtle. A slightly droopy leaf here, a faded shade of green there. I, of course, in my infinite wisdom, assumed he was just “going through a phase.” Turns out, plants don’t have “phases.” They have needs. And when those needs aren’t met, they (subtly) let you know.

    It made me realize how often I do the same thing in my own life. I ignore the quiet whispers of stress, the gentle nudges of my intuition, until they become blaring sirens I can no longer ignore. Ferdinand, in his quiet resilience, taught me the importance of paying attention to the subtle cues, both in myself and in others.

    Lesson #2: Tough Love: The Kindest Thing for Plants (and People)?

    Now, I’m a natural-born nurturer. Give me a struggling anything, and my instinct is to shower it with love, attention, and maybe a little too much fertilizer. So when Ferdinand started looking sickly, my first thought was, “MORE WATER!” But, as any plant parent knows, overwatering can be just as detrimental as underwatering.