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  • The Unexpected Joy of Missing My Train (And What I Learned Instead)

    The Unexpected Joy of Missing My Train (And What I Learned Instead)




    The Unexpected Joy of Missing My Train (And What I Learned Instead)


    We’ve all been there. Standing on the platform, watching our train pull away as we frantically pat our pockets for a nonexistent time-turner. Just last week, I joined the ranks of the tragically-late commuters. But what started as a travel nightmare turned into a surprisingly delightful day. Here’s the story of how missing my train opened my eyes (and my stomach) to unexpected joys.

    The Great Coffee Caper of Platform 4

    Picture this: me, sprinting through the station like a caffeinated cheetah, only to arrive at the platform just as the doors slide shut with a mocking hiss. My stomach, already grumbling from a missed breakfast, chose that moment to unleash a growl that could rival a T-Rex. Defeated, I slumped onto a bench, the weight of my missed meeting settling on my shoulders like a soggy backpack.

    coffee shop tucked away in the corner of the station.

    Unexpected Encounters: The Kindness of Strangers

    Now, I’m usually a “grab-and-go” kind of coffee drinker, but the cozy atmosphere of this place drew me in. I ordered a latte and a blueberry scone the size of my head (hey, I was emotionally compromised!), and found myself chatting with the barista, a friendly woman with a contagious laugh. She told me about her dreams of opening a bakery, and I shared my own aspirations as a writer. It was a small, everyday conversation, but it filled me with a warmth I hadn’t realized I was missing.

    And the kindness didn’t stop there. As I was leaving the coffee shop, a kind gentleman noticed me struggling with my suitcase and offered to help me carry it down the stairs. We got to talking, and it turned out he was a retired history professor with the most fascinating stories about the city. He pointed out hidden architectural details I’d never noticed before, and by the time I reached my destination (a charming bookstore I’d never have discovered otherwise), I felt like I’d been on a mini-adventure.

    Finding Joy in the Journey: The Beauty of Slowing Down

    Missing my train forced me to slow down, to be present in the moment, and to appreciate the small joys I usually rush past. It reminded me that sometimes, the unexpected detours in life can lead to the most rewarding destinations.

  • The Unexpected Joy of Missing My Train (And What I Learned From It)

    The Unexpected Joy of Missing My Train (And What I Learned From It)

    The Day My Train Left Without Me

    We’ve all been there. That heart-stopping moment when you see your train pulling away, leaving you stranded on the platform with nothing but the faint smell of diesel fumes and a healthy dose of regret. Just last week, this was me. I was running late, frantically trying to locate my train ticket in the depths of my overstuffed bag, when the doors closed with a hiss and the train began to move. My heart sank. “Great,” I thought, “just great. This is going to be a disaster.”

    Coffee Shop)

    But then, something strange happened. As I watched the tail lights disappear into the distance, a wave of unexpected calm washed over me. The world didn’t end because I missed my train. In fact, the world seemed to keep spinning quite happily without me on that particular mode of transport.

    With a newfound sense of freedom, I decided to make the most of my predicament. I spotted a cute little coffee shop across the street, the kind I always tell myself I’ll try but never do. Today, fate had intervened. I ordered a cappuccino and a delicious-looking pastry, settled into a comfy armchair by the window, and pulled out a book I’d been meaning to start. The sun streamed through the windows, the coffee was divine, and the world seemed to slow down.

  • The Unexpected Joy of Missing My Train

    The Unexpected Joy of Missing My Train






    The Day My Schedule Went Off the Rails (Literally)

    We’ve all been there. You’re rushing through the station, coffee sloshing precariously, heart pounding to the rhythm of the announcement: “The train departing for…” My moment arrived just last week. There I was, a frantic mess, only to witness my train chugging merrily away without me. My initial reaction? Let’s just say it wasn’t pretty.

    But as I stood there, shoulders slumping, a strange calm washed over me. My carefully constructed schedule lay in ruins, and you know what? It was oddly… liberating. I was free, untied to the rigid timetable I’d imposed on myself. And that, my friends, is when the adventure began.

    Discovering Hidden Gems: A Bookstore and a Second Breakfast

    With time suddenly on my side, I noticed a charming bookstore nestled on a side street I’d always zipped past. Drawn in by the promise of literary treasures, I discovered a haven of overflowing shelves and the intoxicating scent of old paper. I spent a delightful hour browsing, stumbling upon a forgotten classic I’d been meaning to read for years.

  • The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant

    The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant




    The Unexpected Life Lessons I Learned From a Houseplant


    From Brown Thumb to Budding Botanist (Almost)

    Let’s be honest, I’m about as far from a “plant person” as you can get. My idea of gardening used to involve watering plastic flowers when they got dusty (spoiler alert: it didn’t help). So, when my well-meaning friend gifted me a peace lily for my birthday, I accepted it with a smile…and a healthy dose of internal panic.

    “Don’t worry,” my friend chirped, misinterpreting my panicked silence, “It’s super low-maintenance!” Famous last words, I thought, picturing the poor thing wilting under my less-than-watchful eye.

    Lesson #1: Finding Growth in Stillness

    The first thing that surprised me about my leafy roommate was how much it didn’t need me. Sure, I watered it (sometimes even remembering without the guilt-inducing droop), but it wasn’t like this demanding toddler throwing a tantrum for attention. It just…existed. And you know what? It thrived.

    Watching that little plant quietly flourish taught me a valuable lesson: Growth isn’t always loud or obvious. Sometimes, the most profound changes happen beneath the surface, in the quiet moments of reflection and nurturing. It was a much-needed reminder in our always-on, constantly-connected world.

    Lesson #2: The Power of Tough Love (and Plant Food)

    Of course, my journey with Phil (yes, I named him) wasn’t all sunshine and blooming success. There was the Great Overwatering Fiasco of 2023 (RIP, bottom leaves) and the time I nearly gave up on him during a particularly stubborn case of brown tips.

    But here’s the thing about plants (and maybe even people): Sometimes, a little tough love is what they need to thrive. A gentle pruning here, a dose of plant food there, and suddenly, Phil was back to his vibrant self. It was a powerful reminder that even when things seem bleak, a little bit of care and attention can go a long way.